Being broken is the most painful part of being a teenager. Many of us fall in love with a certain person, but in the end, we end up suffering being in HELL.

Why is a certain person broken? What would be the possible reason? Probably, breaking up, being REJECTED, being played of and many other reasons.

Let’s start with breaking UP.

Breaking UP is the most painful thing a person ever experienced. They may break up for a reason that they wished it’s not or the other guy/girl broke up with him/her because he/she already found another. It’s really painful to experience this kind of hell. But we can’t help it! Falling inlove is unavoidable. You immediately have the feeling instantly and that’s the most hateful part. Why can’t we avoid falling inlove? Why does love easily fades away? Why does there are some playful person who plays the heart of a person?

Well, that’s part of a TEENAGER. A teenager falls inlove easily. They never thought of whatever future may be, as long as they have the one they love. They never thought about the future that awaits and the consequences that will happen. They just FALL. That’s part of being a TEENAGER. It’s also part of being a teenager that a certain TEEN is playing the feelings of the other. We are carefree and we want to have fun with our life! Sometimes, we want to compete how many gfs/bfs we have, or even we test or charisma or we want to have a companion wherever we go. Unfortunately, that’s also a part of being a teenager. It’s also a part of a teenager to be ignorant of LOVE. Love never fades as long as it’s true. So, if someone told you that his/her love faded, then in the beginning, that person never DID love you. Maybe, he/she has a guess that MAYBE he/she loves you. Or maybe he/she just like you or idolized you. Like or appreciation is not the same as LOVE. Anyways, teens are still young to enter the world of LOVE. Sometimes, some teens thought that they love each other very much that the girl gave everything to the guy. Like having SEX. Many teens nowadays experienced this. Because of ignorance, they thought that giving ones whole self would prove your love for the certain person. After doing this, when the ‘love’ that you thought bore, you broke up with each other and do the abortion (mostly, the guy decides to do this). So where is love? The guy would never break up with you because you both decided to do IT and part of your decision was to accept the consequences because you thought you LOVE each other. Those were the mistakes the TEENS regret. But, it’s part of being a TEENAGER of being ignorant. So, being broken is significant.

Let me tell you about a broken friend.

My friend always tells me that she really loves that person because he is very handsome. She said that it was love at first sight. I just nodded my head to show that I agree. I really agree with her because he’s always our topic (and it honestly annoys me). I am happy for her because she’s already in love at a very young age (she’s still 14). And I’ve never experience that (I wish I had). Then one day, that guy courted her. It surprised me though, but I am happy for her. Then again, HE is again our main topic. I’m kinda annoyed but I am really happy to see her smile brightly (I wish I could smile that much!). But one day, she called me by her phone (many load, eh?), she told me “He broke up with me!”. I could sense that she cried although she hides it. I don’t know the reason why because all her stories were so POSITIVE that you would hardly think that their relationships will end. But then, she admitted that she never mentioned her doubts about him. She told me that his ex boyfriend was a recent playboy. She knows about that and even though she knows that that guy will hurt him, she still said yes. I am very shocked with her revelation and I finally realized that love can make you fool. Because you really love that certain person, you would do anything to have him. That’s what she did even though she knows the consequences that will come. I don’t know if it’s really love that she is having. I really thought that it’s just LIKE. But I don’t know, up until now, she still loves him and she told me that she will wait for him ‘til the end of time. She will never love anyone but him. She’ll be contented with her life seeing him happy. If that will happen, it’s LOVE at all. She cried so hard after telling me what’s inside her. She almost wanna die. But, she still wants to see him happy before she dies (what a strong girl). I just let her cry ‘til she gets tired. Right now, she’s a bit different than before. She became a loner and she also stopped talking about him (it would hurt her more). So, that may be the experience of a broken person. It’s really like hell.

I don’t wanna experience what my friend experienced. It’s like hell. But, I know that it’s a part of being a teenager so I have to face it! I just have to prepare myself of experiencing this so that I would not be too surprised of experiencing hell.

So, if you’ve been broken for some reason, I suggest that you should move on with your life. Don’t be like my friend. Don’t change your whole life because of that certain someone. You’ll never find your REAL mate if you’ll be a loner forever. Have a life and leave those feelings behind (if you can do it). If you really can’t do it, I don’t know what you should do. Some suggest that you should find another cause love comes and happens anytime. Have a great time with your life and don’t waste it somewhere else.

If you have never been broken, just be prepared of your incoming destiny. We, teenagers are destined to be broken. So, be prepared, that’s all I could say.

That’s all. Have a very wonderful love life!